It should be clear by now that I'm not going to post comments that are rude, spiteful, mean, or abusive. I make an effort to be positive and constructive in my posts and when I respond to comments. I hold you to the same standards, or I won't be allowing your comments.
We don't have to agree. We do have to have a civil dialogue.
Frankly, my college writing students are far better at the whole constructive criticism thing than some of my anonymous commenters.
And you know what? It's hurtful. And hurt just breeds hurt.
So please, do yourself a favor, and either grow up or go comment on someone else's blog.